I wanted to make sure there was a spark first and that I wanted to see him again before I mentioned anything to her.

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Do the two of you look alike (you and your sister, naturally)?

I told my sister right after James and I had out first date.

My first thought was to say no..if it was 10 years ago and while they were in high school I think you can make a case for it being ok. and if it upset your sister that would be different.

10 years is a long time, and like you said, she's definitely moved on. If the age difference isn't a problem for you then go for it.

Its years later now, that car has long since died a horrible death but both of his brothers own the same car, same year even.

The one brother has the exact same car and the other brother has the two door version.

Do you have other reservations that made you pose this question?

First of all, I am a huge pessimist and I guess I thought maybe the fact that James and I get along so well was only a fluke.

She sometimes puts an “x” on the end of her texts – but not always.

She does have a boyfriend who she has been seeing for about a year but I don’t think it is serious – she only likes him and doesn’t love him.

I just don't know if this would cause any problems down the line. But also a strong supporter of the notion that sometimes love happens when you least expect it.