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According to women lose 90% of their eggs by age 30.

Is it wrong that I am disappointed that there is apparently no sex in heaven? Also, holding my gas in public was becoming inconvenient, glad I can just let go and let God. Running around naked and convincing my husband to do things seems ideal. Check out more from Nina Borum on her blog and follow her on Twitter!

I always pay my share the first time I meet a man.” ‘Janine’ said this after I suggested waiting for the man to pay for dates, and then paying her part only if he indicated he wanted her to.

And not dating him again if indeed, that’s what he wanted.

In fact, I'd been going about being single all wrong.

When I started seeing my husband, aka the first guy I wasn't embarrassed to tell my therapist about, I was gobsmacked to realize how much I hadn't known about dating before then.

You didn't like it when your godson hurled on you, and he was a toddler. It's not about getting someone to think you're good enough for them. And sometimes they have small behaviors that indicate a complete lack of respect. When you're part of a couple, you miss being free to follow your every whim. No one ever fell in love while analyzing every detail of their momentous first meeting. If a man says that he's too damaged for you (or too neurotic, or too anything), just take his word for it.

It’s about finding someone you can stand to spend a ridiculous amount of time with. If you wouldn't let your friend's sweetie talk to her (your essential piece of pop culture may vary) anyway. The sooner you weed them out of your life, the happier you'll be.8. Being unattached means not having to compromise on your plans.9. Even if it is his low self-esteem talking, you're not going to be able to fix him.

Contrary to popular belief, they do not all have red hair, fiery tempers, consume gallons of ale, and believe in leprechauns.