If your love life has taken a lucky turn and you've scored a date, then you may be a bit nervous.

Local guys (like local women) have obligations too and envy expats because they don't.

They're insecure because expats are a variable they can't control.

From their society's perspective - if she deviates from this then indirectly she becomes an "outcast".

Even if she doesn't the fear of becoming one will hold her back from dating you.

According to Top Dating Tips, confidence is key in winning a girl's affections. You can also put yourself at an advantage by learning about her culture and society so when you discuss her background, you can sound interested and knowledgeable (which hopefully you are).

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